“Here you have my version of the events. Tom has his own version of above events. Tom has an agenda to go along with his version of events.”

“I will go through your letter and respond to each of the points you have made.”

“you referenced Dad’s greed, pride, deceit & unfaithfulness (selfishness).  Could you share with me the evidences you see of each of these.”

“…although this backtracking into the jungle of deceit will be detailed, it will not be thorough. A book would not be enough…”

The marriage vow, “to love and cherish,” in biblical terms means to “lay down your life for” your wife. There’s no room left for selfishness

“Now, after answering your question about evidence for sin, again you need to be responding, not listening.”

“My goal is to clarify the truth, encourage you and others to relate to it and see relationships solidly anchored in it.”